Monday, October 3, 2011

You Sure, He's the One?

When you find your Prince Charming, how would you know if he's the one for you till the rest of your life? Honestly, is there such a thing in everlasting. I have lost hope in Mars although I try to keep in reminding myself that there is such a thing. But then again, if there is the divorce rate in the world would not be increasing annually right?

Recently, a good friend of mine had decided to separate from her partner after a long time. Let's say that a child would have turn into a young adult if they have one. Yes, that's how long they have been together. Now, they are going on their own ways.

This is nothing new in life. You can find yourself surround with these news be it the celebrities you loved or your neighbor next door. We just thought that it could not happen to us. Simply because it won't. We won't let it happened no matter. Unfortunately, the journey is too much to handle for both parties.

Final decision, separation follows by divorce. 


I hate to hear the bad news but think again what are the headaches and heartaches one faces. Non-stop teary eyes that keep you awake all night long, your heart feel like being stabbed again and again. Remind you on the physical and mental that you would have wasted in. Sounds too exhausting for me to describe unless you've been there, had that happened and passed it. Then, that's a relief to you.

If not, pray hard. Do your part in keeping the relationship alive! You are not alone in the game. Everyone plays a role on its own. If you think you've done a lot, think again. Is it a joint-effort or just a one-man show?


“I fell in love with her when we were together, then fell deeper in love with her in the years we were apart.”~Nicholas Sparks

Whatever it is, I hope you asked yourself, "Is He The One?". I've asked my cousin few months before her big day and later on she called off her wedding a week prior. Opppppss.... that's nothing compare to when you have a marriage that is older than your closet.